Gainey Helps Kovalev Triumph Over Troubles
The above quotation is from a song off the new Bruce Springsteen disc called "What Love Can Do", a sort of mediation on romance and trust in the post George Bush era, that today strikes me a whole lot more like a snippet of conversation between Bob Gainey and Alex Kovalev from this past week.
Yesterday's 5-3 Canadiens win over Ottawa was yet another chapter in their ongoing relationship, after it appeared as though the love in Kovalev had shared with the Canadiens and their fans had finally hit the bricks.
Gainey obviously understands Kovalev better than any other person can claim to. Talks with him seem to always elicit the right note, reaction and response. Kovalev has gone through coaches and GM's in his career like a school of pirana on prey after a hunger strike, but Gainey somehow manages to tolerate all his dalliances.
How a seemingly no nonsense man such as Gainey can crack the Kovalev riddle time and again is absolutely baffling. It begs the question as to why Gainey lets Kovalev paint himself into a corner first, before coming to his aid.
On Saturday against the Senators, it wasn't so much that Kovalev dazzled in registering a goal and two assists, it was the complete game he offered the team, sparkling in every single facet of it. Truly, for all his offensive prowess, he was extremely zoned in and poised on the penalty kill, better than has been all season.
Kovalev being a threat in all game situations for a full sixty minutes is something we could all get used to. And that's part of the Kovalev connundrum, one day we're ready to write this guy off competely, the next we're biting our tongues searching for superlatives.
Enigma is the word that comes back time and again when describing him. It is likely one Kovalev would use in qualifying himself. Kovalev, we have learned and are learning, looks most confused and lost on the ice, when he is caring the most and is stumped for solutions. It is in his own nature not to turn to anyone for help when trouble comes. His clouded isolation becomes our grief and frustration, his tortured soul morphing into our desperate anger.
What Gainey is able to do - and very well at that - is slash through all the surface perceptions and bull and get directly into the soul of the man. Gainey cuts straight to the chase, and appeals to Kovalev's heart. Much too direct for mind games, the GM intuitively understands what's eating at Kovalev's craw. He can read disappointment in Kovalev's eyes, pride in his words, and a lonesomeness entangled in his heart. With that, Gainey is able to skip straight to the core of the matter.
How Gainey is able to achieve this, is anybody's calculated guess.
Without scraping up detail, we can all appreciate that the Canadiens manager has scoured his own darkest depths a time ot two. His resilience has surely been built upon the strength of family togetherness. Gainey has never been known to say a whole lot. Others would suggest that he is able to speak minimally and yet say a great deal. The intrinsic value of all this is in listening, watching, and feeling.
I can almost picture Gainey letting Kovalev spill his guts, without saying much. The less Gainey says, the more Kovalev opens, and the more there is to be observed. In that manner, Kovalev is allowing Gainey to see everything from fear and weakness to pride and need.
Now it doesn't take a qualified shrink to get that our enigmatic Kovy loves the spotlight and needs to feel appreciated, but for him it might just take a like minded person who's willing to listen, care, and reach out to make him feel that certain love and faith.
Only Gainey and the player know for sure what was discussed between the two of them this week while Kovalev was distanced from the team for three days. With the story taking a subplot to a greater controversy, it looked as though Kovalev was through in Montreal. Threadlines of stories trickled out - he's pissed off, he's been traded to Pittsburgh, he'll play Saturday, he's clarified his earlier anger, and he's meeting with Gainey.
Neither man lost sight of what it was they needed to accomplish with this forced sit down. Even burried in mounting press reports that doom itself was landing on Montreal, the two did what they had to. It's quite admirable.
Gainey, by understanding Kovalev better than a lot of us ever will, reached him through the player's love for the game, the team, and city.
When Kovalev speaks with Gainey, heart to heart, it seems to peel away all the uneccessary emotion the player carries. With burdens lessened, focus clarified, and Kovalev feeling more rightfully appreaciated, Gainey has freed him to once again be simply one important asset on the club rather than its deliverer of destiny. The lightened load suits him much better, whereas placing the captain's "C" on his jersey clearly made him less than the sum of his parts.
The Senators game Saturday has been called a "love in" of sorts between Kovalev and fans - Gainey included. Sometimes the love of hockey frustrates Kovalev, sometimes it feeds him. When Gainey identified that Kovalev's work must precede his talent, the direction it gave Kovalev must have been a welcome respite after feeling overburdened by all the responsabilities he placed on himself in trying to make the team win.
"The team doesn't need Alex the way he's playing right now", is how Gainey framed it. He was right. The team needs him the way he played yesterday. Sometimes, a loosening of the chains allows him to be the player he is. Perhaps now Kovalev understands that he owns the keys to his own shackles.
Gainey didn't pull Kovalev aside to run him throught a grinder as many, myself included, first thought. He brought him to a place where, with some reflexion, deep breaths and deeper conversation, an understanding emerged that there was still a lot that he could offer the team when at his best and that this break was a way to help enable it to happen.
The best part, was that by placing Kovalev is a reflective mode, it allowed Gainey to reach him with the message that he still had faith in him. That made all the difference. You could just see it in the way Kovalev was feeling the love after Saturday's game.
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Let's see
How this plays out over the next week. Tough games against 3 playoff bound teams in Vancouver, Philly and San Jose. Tanguay might be back for the Friday/Saturday games.
Man, did he look pale and skinny, though. How much can he run on just adrenaline?
After this week, we seem to have our entire first line from last year back on track, we have a lethal PP again, and we’re getting what was supposed to be our team’s 2nd line back this week (Higgins-Koivu-Tanguay). We just need Komisarek and Price to get things back on track… and I actually see signs that Komi is coming back. Markov seems to be on the right track.
This team played nowhere near good enough this past week to be the team that they could be, but they played good enough to win games provided they got good goaltending, which is a start.
Hockey blogging can't get any flatter.
by saskhab on Feb 22, 2009 3:19 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Komisarek is hurt. He should sit out a few now too!
There are many concerns. The team was terribly indisciplined in the third period, taking 6 penalties and giving up 22 shots to Ottawa. If that had beeen any other team, we all might not be in such a cheery mood today.
by Robert L on Feb 22, 2009 5:50 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
Great Insight
Robert, Well written! While we all anxiously waiting to see how the next few games unfold for Kovelav, the article sheds insightful and well thought out. Thanks.
by EDML on Feb 22, 2009 4:04 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
YW EDML, but insight might not be the right word, as……I have none, lol. Call it a perspective!
by Robert L on Feb 22, 2009 5:52 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Terrific Post
Excellent post Robert. Hopefully Carbo can learn from Gainey, in how to tap into his players to get the best out of them.
by bolder on Feb 23, 2009 7:57 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
Respect
There seems to be mutual respect between Kovalev and Gainey. The fact that it is mutual is important. Obviously evryone and anyone would give Gainey their respect as his Cups and achievements speak for themselves. But while Carbonneau seems to treat his best players like numbers in his mad line juggling jigsaw, Gainey seems to really respect Alex.
Of course, respect is a two-way street and can’t last in a unidirectional fashion for very long. Perhaps why Kovalev and Carbonneau seem to have lost respect for one another (who knows who jumped first?).
As they share a mutual respect, Gainey can say things like: “We don’t need you the way you are playing now” and get away with it. Not only that, the player listens to his manager/mentor out of respect.
A lot is made over what could have been said between the two men in the days of rest. I don’t think much more needed to be said, personally, after that initial statement to the press. That was the make or break for Kovalev – would he agree or not with the assessment, quit or reload?
He decided to give what he’s got. I for one am happy about that.
by Topham on Feb 23, 2009 9:27 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
I don’t put a whole lot into the Kovalev and Carbonneau relationship. As I see it, the coach doesn’t play him when he’s off, and I agree with it. Had I been behind that bench, I’d have had Kovalev sitting near Gainey sooner, a hundred or so feet from the ice about three weeks ago.
Respect is a two way street, and is earned both ways. A lot of the time , Kovalev coasts on past earnings.
by Robert L on Feb 23, 2009 9:57 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
It matters
It matters if Kovalev doesn’t respect doesn’t respect his coach or vice versa. Carbo will never get the best out of a player who does not respect his advice or plans. If for no other reason, people who disrespect Kovalev should at least concede the guy is not a quitter. A tradeable asset two weeks before the deadline could have packed it in.
by Topham on Feb 23, 2009 6:26 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Everything has a flipside. Two weeks before the deadline, it looked to me like Kovalev HAD packed it up. I’ll give him credit for responding, but it can’t just be for few games.
With Kovalev, it is hard to guess how he feels about coaches. I don’t find that he’s a guy to play in any system. He’s like Lafeur in that way, purely instinctive.
It’s one thing to respect Kovalev’s talent, but if he’s totally off in a game and Carbonneau continues giving him all the ice he wants, he risks losing the respect of players who are there killing themselves for the team and being given even less icetime.
by Robert L on Feb 23, 2009 8:04 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs

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